Dating a man with borderline personality
Phase 4: But a couple weeks of this and it’s already too late.
I’d texted the guy I liked (who seemed to like me back, although “seemed” is never, ever, ever enough for me). No matter how hard I tried to be positive, my anxiety built and soon I’d spiraled into a full blown none of my relationships have ever worked out so why should this one train wreck of thought.
Eventually my mom had to come peel me off of the floor and dump me lovingly into bed. It’s not the first time I’ve “lost it” in a relationship.
Let’s just say I’ve attempted the whole dating thing more than a few times, but my relationships all seem to end the same way (I’ll give you a hint, I’m still single).
Here’s the pattern I’ve tracked, and you can let me know if yours is similar: Phase 1: It all starts with my idolizing the guy. Suddenly he’s perfect, we’re perfect for each other, everything’s so flipping perfect.
If you feel like one moment your partner loves and adores you and the next they’re verbally abusing and abandoning you for no reason, your partner more than likely has borderline personality disorder (BPD).
Though it's not an extremely common disorder, it’s found in approximately 3.2 million adults in the United States alone, primarily young women.
they’ll leave you then beg you back apologising, telling you you’re the most special person in the world to them and thanking you for helping them and being there for them, only to devalue you and repeat the process all over again at the next devaluation.
A week before Christmas, I was lying on the floor in a pitch black room, sobbing.
This is because your partner may not only be prone to sudden aggressive behavior or outbursts of temper but also give way to impulsive behavior.
Acts like binge-drinking, excessive spending, sexual promiscuity, drug and alcohol abuse, gambling, self-harming and reckless driving are all common in people with borderline personality disorder.
While patients of depression and bipolar disorder tend to feel low for several days, in case of borderline personality disorder the intense mood swings usually last a few hours to a day at the most.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating